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Does empathy have a downside? Empathy, codependency and boundaries

Does empathy have a downside? Empathy, codependency and boundaries

by Rachel | Jul 31, 2023 | Counselling and therapy, Suggested Reading

As therapists, we are taught the vital importance of empathy very early on, because feeling that your therapist is empathic is one of the ‘common factors’ which helps to create positive change, whatever type of therapy is being practiced.  Taking a scroll on...
Music for our fight, flight and freeze response

Music for our fight, flight and freeze response

by Rachel | Mar 22, 2023 | Counselling and therapy

Recently I’ve been immersing myself in the world of nervous system regulation and survival stress (if you’re interested in digging into this further too Irene Lyon has a lot of high-quality free resources which are well worth a look ). At some point during this...
Getting through Christmas when things are hard – Christmas and our mental health

Getting through Christmas when things are hard – Christmas and our mental health

by Rachel | Dec 12, 2022 | lgbtq+, Self-compassion

If you’re queer, have a difficult relationship with your family, or are just having a rough one this year, I wrote this for you.Greetings of the season friends, This year has (again) been a lot, for a lot of people.  Globally and collectively, in the realms of...
Self-care, self-soothing, numbing out and how to tell the difference

Self-care, self-soothing, numbing out and how to tell the difference

by Rachel | Nov 15, 2022 | Counselling and therapy, lgbtq+, Self-compassion, sporadic blogs exploring therapy through queer popular culture

The concept of self-care and self-soothing is one that I explore a lot in therapy sessions. A hat tip to the fact that although therapy can be powerful, it is a mere 50 mins out of 10080 in a week.Many people believe that self-care and self-soothing are something they...
How to work with your ‘inner critic’ and improve your self-esteem

How to work with your ‘inner critic’ and improve your self-esteem

by Rachel | Mar 24, 2022 | Counselling and therapy, Self-compassion

Does the voice in your head speak to you like a supportive coach or a mean bully who is never satisfied? If it’s the latter, is there anything you can do about it? In psychotherapy we often refer to this negative internal voice as the ‘inner critic’. Identifying this...
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