Alternative adulting milestones

Alternative adulting milestones

When you don’t conform to conventional cis-het milestones then sometimes others (particularly parents) can keep thinking of you as a child, even when you’re a fully-fledged grown up.  This feels very unfair and got me thinking what some alternative adulting...
How to stop self-sabotaging happiness

How to stop self-sabotaging happiness

Happiness is weird. As an opening gambit this maybe falls short in profundity, but bear with me. As a therapist I do a lot of work with ‘uncomfortable’ emotions (the whole thing about there being no ‘bad’ emotions probably merits a separate blog in itself).  So...